I get some of your points but excluding someone due to their color is racist.However, the desire to bond with those who have similarities is normal. just like it is acceptable In NY , where you have Little Italy, Chinatown, Monsey and Harlem.

We tend to feel more comfortable with those who have similar beliefs and lifestyles.

I also get the point of the whites who say it is reverse racism. Why is it acceptable to have black only groups, but not white ones? You get your ass sued if you do.

Why bring up the past, when those idiotic thoughts of White Only were acceptable.? Kind of makes me think of "2 wrongs don't make a right"

We have made so much progress and that needs to be celebrated. Reflecting on all the wrongs just brings up emotions of bitterness and resentment.

This isn't always an easy thing to do. We actually have cellular memory, where we unconsciously remember things that our ancestors have experienced.

I say we focus on our own inner healing, before we rant about how twisted the world is. We are all aware of it, so lets not perpetuate it, and find ways to improve ourselves, heal our own hurts and fears.